I’ve been filling the place with bullshit links for a few weeks now; things have been going down that I couldn’t talk about.  I can say one thing now though: John Whitney and I are breaking up.  :-( It just sucks and I really don’t want to talk about it here.  But people are finding out, and I had to mention it eventually, lest I totally confuse everyone by whatever I’ll be posting here in the future.

I won’t talk about the reasons here.  Y’all can’t understand how this came about because you can’t know the whole story unless you were one of us.  I did blog about our fun times together, and all the good things were nice to share, but I didn’t talk about the problems we had and never will.  John’s a great guy, best boyfriend I ever had.  We want to salvage the friendship, and the next month will be the total upheaval of both our lives.  We need space both literally and figuratively.  He’s staying in Chicago; I may be moving out west, for reasons I will have to explain later (or… not?).  John’s keeping both the kitties. They’re best friends so… their lives will be happier if they stay together.

I won’t be writing much in the next month or so, for obvious reasons!  Don’t wanna talk about it, don’t wanna hear it, don’t wanna have to deal with this website for just a few weeks, if y’all will please bear with me.  I’m even closing comments on this post because you know what?  Don’t wanna hear it.  Thanks though.