Just a few things I want to always remember and never forget. In no particular order.

  • File away all paperwork instead of leaving it laying around in piles.

  • Enjoy things that amuse me, even if it means I might look foolish to others.

  • Sing the praises of wonderful people.

  • Check the van every day lest I be ticketed for street-cleaning.

  • Be funnier.

  • Treasure my family.

  • Do something every day to further my own physical health.

  • Unabashedly appreciate members of the opposite sex for being fine, even if I know they are way out of my league, and even if I know I’m only appreciating their superficial qualities.

  • Do something that requires courage and self-confidence, even/especially if it scares me.

  • Backup my data.

  • Stop agonizing over the actions of "bad" girls like Paris & Nicole. They are doing just fine.

  • Don’t be a pest, but do reach out to others for fun and friendship, even if it means my actions may be misinterpreted.

  • Know who I am, love myself for who I am, and show no shame.

  • Accept that I have little control over what people think about me. That’s okay; I’m not required to prove myself to anyone.

  • Work on music every day.

  • If someone or something makes me feel uncomfortable, back away slowly and go elsewhere.

  • Help others when I can, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when I need it.

  • Say please and thank you. It is not implied, I must actually say those words.

  • Stop using parking spots as an excuse to isolate myself from others.

  • Be the first to admit my mistakes.

  • Follow a project through to its completion.

  • If I find myself doing something that’s counterproductive to my own health and happiness, stop it!

…I can think of a lot more, but that’s a pretty good start.